While reading one of Kit’s posts, I noted she was pointing out a distinct lack of crossdresser/ significant others within the community. She introduced her wife via a nom de plume, and it made me realize I had failed to even do that. I’ve merely referenced her as, My Girlfriend.”
Someone as awesome as her deserves better than that. She, as far as I know, won’t be posting or blogging, but I feel it inherently respectful to refer to her in some specific way. I’ve previously asked her when I started posting at crossdressers.com and she was unsure of what to choose.
I thought about going humorous and saddling her with “Dr. Girlfriend” ala The Venture Brothers, but her voice isn’t raspy. At all. Although she would look pretty awesome in a Dr. Girlfriend costume. Besides, a humorous nickname didn’t feel respectful. But her real name is a no go. Her privacy is paramount.
I know the casual reader can’t help me here; you have no context to go by. But I would like to hear your thoughts on the matter. But I just tend to write about what’s on my mind, to sort of process it all through. Ya’ll will know when I’ve had a breakthrough though.
Ever & Always,
Desperately seeking a name Caden Lane