What to do…what to do…?!?

Good day dear readers,

Not much has really been going on in my world last few days. I had planned to go out with a friend from Charleston tonight, but the panning on that fell through due to a scheduling conflict. So I was sort of bummed out about that; however Rachel messaged me and asked if I’d enjoy taking some time tomorrow and enjoying a “makeup experimentation day.” I was thrilled of course, another excuse to dress despite the previous event falling through.

So that goes in the win category. So mulling over what I should wear. I was thinking maybe a sporty outfit, since Rachel always wears sporty outfits; yoga pants or running tights, athletic jacket, sports bra…you know that sort of stuff. But Then yesterday I got home from class, and I had a brand new pair of silk stockings from Secrets In Lace waiting on me. So I’d love to wear an outfit where I could enjoy wearing those and a garter belt. I just hate overdressing and risking making Rachel feel awkward or something. So will have to continue to process this.

I’m also toying with still going out this evening as well. I’m leery, especially after a friend on Crossdressers.com suffered a hate crime assault while out dressed alone. I tend to go out dressed and armed, but you never really want to take safety for granted, no matter what you are considering. So I may run this past Miss Girlfriend just to see how she feels about it.

Anyhow, I’m going to close for now. I think it is a disservice to simply fill a blog with filler when there is admittedly not much to post about.

But I will post again very soon!

Ever & Always,
Caden Lane


2 thoughts on “What to do…what to do…?!?

  1. Well that might be how you feel, but not necessarily how Rachel feels if you dressed that way. For me I would be happy if you dressed in a way that you liked not necessarily in a similar way as me. I would want you to feel comfortable in what you are wearing also. Might message Rachel with what you want to wear and see what she thinks.

    That is really sad that your friend suffered a hate crime assault 😦 Having to worry about our safety when going out is the real tragedy. Should be able to do that no matter how we present and feel safe doing that. But this is the real world and worrying about that happening and our safety is a big concern indeed. I would say if you feel that you can defend yourself and the area where your going is safe enough then go for it. There is always the risk like anything else that God forbid something like this would happen to you or anyone else. But also cannot sit around the house afraid to go out alone because of what may happen. Just need to weigh up the risks and decide from there with consultation with others. If you feel safe then do it, if not then stay home.

    Filer and nothing much to write about? I have to disagree. I see a couple good topics that where interesting to read about and discuss.


  2. Whenever I go out I try to think well in advance what I may want to wear but since my time is often not fully in my control I tend to make clothes selection a “game day decision”. Commit to the makeup day with Rachel and put on what you are inspired to wear when it is time to dress.


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